We choose
our friends because they remind us of what we can be and who we are and the
choices that we make. They are our idols and our playmates, our heroes and
sometime soul mates. For female friendships, the mere presence of another woman
that knows you helps to reconfirm. This reconfirmation of our Self provides the
strength that women need to move back through their own lives and accommodate
the needs of others and the myriad of daily requests that are put on us by our
children, husbands, co-workers, and even parents and siblings. As in the
practice of yoga, we return to our mats to let go. To practice the art of
letting go. We return to the warm embrace of friendship in order to reaffirm
our position in the universe. After spending time with good friends I can see more
clearly. I can be more patient with my children and show them more compassion,
too. Though it could sound dramatic to put so much weight on the power of
female friendships, I feel that there is so much involved when women stand
together. We can change the world.
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